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Names cut to an initial, blurred photos, hidden numbers and health data. You choose what disappears.
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Version 1.2 · EN & FR
Your journal,not a network.
Log your dates and hookups in seconds, find what worked best and keep an eye on your health. No account, no server: nothing leaves your phone.
- No account
- Passcode & Face ID
- PrEP tracking
Private by design
Your love life and your health are nobody’s business but yours. So heatmeUp has no server to store your journal, no account to tie it to your name, and no ads to profit from it.
What we don’t haveAccountEmailServerTracking
Your journal is encrypted on your device. And the backup is yours to keep.
How we protect your dataHow it works
From the encounter to the patterns.
01 · Add
Log it in seconds
A first name, a date, the chemistry. Tick whether it was a date, a hookup or both, and the app asks the right questions. Everything else is optional.
One simple form02 · Find
Find who gave you butterflies
Sort by chemistry, by last encounter or by how often you met again. Photos, contacts, kinks, parties: every profile tells its story.
Profiles & sorting03 · Calendar
Your month at a glance
Pink dots for hookups, violet ones for dates. Tap a day to see who, where and at which party. Events keep their own date and place.
Calendar & events04 · Map
Rediscover your best spots
Every encounter can have a place. The map brings out the neighbourhoods and venues that work for you, perfect for picking your next date.
Map of places05 · Stats
Make sense of your habits
Encounters, average chemistry, trends, cities, types of places… Filter over 30 days, 6 months or your whole history: the app does the counting.
Stats by period
Built for real life
Discreet when it matters, complete when you want.
Passcode & Face ID
The app locks as soon as you leave it. 6-digit passcode or biometrics.
Shake to hide
Three shakes and incognito switches on. Handy when someone is looking over your shoulder.
Reminders that land right
PrEP, STI tests, treatments: answer straight from the notification.
Your backup belongs to you
Export a CSV whenever you like, restore with merge. No mandatory cloud.
Parties & events
Create a party with its date and place: both are pre-filled for everyone you add to it.
Your form, your fields
Hide what you don’t use and build your own lists: places, parties, “met through”…
English & Français
The app follows your phone’s language, or the one you pick.
Sexual health
Your health, minus the headache.
A complete module to track your PrEP, stay ahead of STI tests and handle an STI calmly. It only shows up if you want it.
2-1-1
2 pills before the hookup, then 1 a day until 2 days after the last one
The app works out your protection window, reminds you of every dose and extends the cycle if you go again.
1/day
1 pill a day, continuous protection
A reminder every day at your dose time, based on your first dose. Missed one? The app tells you where you stand.
2 months
One injection at a clinic, repeated every 2 months
The app keeps the date of your next injection and warns you ahead of time so you can book it.
STI tests on time
Log your tests (HIV, syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia, hepatitis) and schedule reminders. Encounters but no test for 90 days? The app suggests one.
An STI? We’ve got you.
Record it, see the risk window and the partners involved, then tell them anonymously through previensmoi.fr.
Health history
Doses, missed doses, tests, treatments: all on one calendar, editable any time.
heatmeUp is a personal tracking tool, not a medical device. It does not replace advice from a healthcare professional.
Your stats
Numbers that look like you.
The app does the counting and surfaces what you would not notice. Everything is calculated on your phone.
- encounters in 6 months
- 23
- average chemistry
- 78%
- people met again
- 9
- neighbourhoods explored
- 6
Your activity, week after week
Chemistry trend
Types of places
- My place38%
- Bar24%
- Party21%
- Other17%
Sample data, for illustration.
Try it
Someone looking? Shake.
Switch incognito on and watch your list disappear. In the app, three shakes are enough.
What gets hidden
- Names
- Photos
- Numbers & charts
- Kinks, parties & health
Questions
You’re probably wondering…
Is heatmeUp a dating app?
No. heatmeUp is a personal journal: nobody can contact you, and there is no public profile or messaging. You log your own encounters, for yourself only.
Where is my data stored?
On your phone, and nowhere else. There is no account and no cloud sync, and your journal is encrypted on the device. Only address search goes through a technical service, which does not keep the query.
What if I change phones?
Export your CSV backup from the settings, then restore it on the new device. Restoring merges with what is already there, without duplicates.
Does the app replace a doctor?
No. The health module helps you stay organised (PrEP doses, reminders, history) but never diagnoses anything. If in doubt or after a risk, contact a healthcare professional or a sexual health clinic.
Which phones?
heatmeUp is coming to iPhone first, then to Android. Both are in the works: leave your email in the waitlist on the home page, pick your phone, and we will let you know the day it is out.
How old do I need to be?
heatmeUp is for people aged 16 and up.
Guides
Understand it all, judgement-free.
DoxyPEP: what to know before talking to your doctor
How it works, its effect on syphilis, chlamydia and gonorrhoea, the antibiotic resistance trade-off and what health authorities say.
Read the guideSTI testing: how often should you get tested?
The right testing rhythm for your situation, how long to wait after a risk, and where to get tested — often for free.
Read the guideOn-demand PrEP (2-1-1): the schedule, simply explained
How to take PrEP on the 2-1-1 schedule, who it is validated for, what to do with repeated sex or a missed dose, and how to organise your follow-up.
Read the guideWaitlist
heatmeUp is coming. Hear about it at launch.
The app lands on iPhone first, then on Android. Pick your phone and leave your email: you will get a single message, the day you can install it.
Your story,yours alone.
heatmeUp is coming soon to iPhone. No account to create: install it, and your journal begins.
For ages 16 and up