Privacy

Your journal never leaves your phone.

heatmeUp is built local-first: no account, no server for your journal, no tracking tools in the app. Here is exactly what lives where.

Where does your data go?

DataWhere it livesWho can access it
Profiles, encounters, notesEncrypted storage on your phoneOnly you
Profile photosThe app’s local filesOnly you
Health tracking (PrEP, tests, STIs, reminders)The app’s local storage, on your phoneOnly you
Address searchQuery passed to a mapping service, with no loggingNobody keeps it
CSV backupWherever you choose to keep itYou, and whoever you decide
Usage analyticsNone: the app ships no analytics tools—

Six safeguards, zero compromise.

No account

No email, no password, no profile. Nothing to hack on a server, nothing that can leak.

App lock

A 6-digit passcode, never stored in plain text, plus Face ID or fingerprint. The app relocks as soon as you leave it.

Incognito by category

Names cut to an initial, blurred photos, hidden numbers and charts, hidden kinks, parties and health.

Shake to hide

Turn the option on and three quick shakes toggle incognito. Off by default.

Permissions when needed

Location, photos, notifications: the app only asks when you use the feature that needs them.

A backup that is yours

Full CSV export (profiles, health, lists), restore with merge, and a reminder after 60 days without a backup.

Try it

Someone looking? Shake.

Switch incognito on and watch your list disappear. In the app, three shakes are enough.

What gets hidden

  • Names
  • Photos
  • Numbers & charts
  • Kinks, parties & health

Ready to writewith total discretion?

heatmeUp is coming soon to iPhone. No account to create: install it, and your journal begins.

For ages 16 and up